She lost too much, and cannot heal. She would rather stay in such an illusion than face the truth. It was too much for her. In order to live, it is the only way. And you must help her, too.
God's sake, I can't put my mind to work when I love you. The system is not working, and suddenly I've become open-minded . The age gap just DOES NOT MATTER. And if there's any problem that you're blaming yourself for, just remember that you blocked my ability to THINK CLEAR , and that's your ONLY FAULT.